The whole point of this thread is not to call anyone in specific out-It’s really for the entire community. The problem that I am seeing is that people either are:
a) Unwilling to acknowledge that things can go too far
b) Completely blindsided from the fact that the community has major problems
c) Victim blaming others
d) Saying that harassment is a chain reaction that usually starts somewhere
All I want to say is own up to your mistakes. No one on this planet is a perfect human being, but we all can try to be better for each other so that everything can be a little easier.